05-12-2024
Transform the Limited Version of Yourself: Moving Beyond the Guilt of “What Could I Have Done Differently?”
I used to torment myself with that question: “What could I have done differently?” It haunted me during my darkest nights. I would replay the moments, dissect the choices, and feel the weight of unbearable guilt pressing down on me. It didn’t matter how many times I asked; the past didn’t change. What did change, though, was my sense of worth, my belief in myself, and my ability to move forward.
In moments of vulnerability, I fell into the trap of letting my mind create stories- -fearful, limiting beliefs that reinforced helplessness and kept me stuck. I was trapped in a negative cycle that seemed impossible to break. But then, I realized something profound: my thoughts weren’t the enemy; they were the key.
I began to create space- -not between myself and the world, but between myself and my thoughts. Everything happens in the PAUSE. I started using healing techniques to gently chip away at the resistance I felt, layer by layer. As I did, I tapped into a wider perspective on life that wasn’t rooted in guilt or fear but in the present moment.
I stopped making decisions based on fearful memories and started living for today. That shift didn’t come easily - - it came from deep work, from facing my past head-on and choosing to transform the limited version of myself.
This is part of the work I do now, helping others like you reclaim your life from the grips of guilt, fear, and self-doubt. You don’t have to keep asking yourself that painful question or reliving the past. You have the power to heal, to reframe, and to rewrite your story.
The breakthrough you’re looking for begins with you. With my dream clients, we explore the spaces between their thoughts, uncover the truth of who they are, and help them make decisions that align with the present - - not the pain of the past. It’s time to move forward.
Are you ready to transform the limited version of yourself and step into the life you’re truly meant to live?
Believe Breathe Transform.
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